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THE
LILY SERIES: A LONGITUDINAL PORTRAIT OF LIFE WITH DOWN SYNDROME
Produced and narrated by Elizabeth Grace
$250.
ISBN: 1-891340-65-4 
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Lily is a remarkably endearing young woman who happened to have the Down
Syndrome genetic anomaly. In this three part series of portraits, viewers
meet her at ten years of age, at twenty and at thirty. Produced and
narrated by her mother, this prizewinning set of films has much to say about
universal issues of growing up such as making friends, seeking love and
establishing independence with the special poignancy as experienced by
someone who our society deems different.

LILY: A STORY ABOUT A GIRL LIKE ME (Lily at age 10)
1978 (14 min)
Content:
Educational mainstreaming in elementary school
Family life
Friends
Visuals:
Classroom and playground scenes
Lily at home with her siblings and parents
Lily’s birthday party

LILY: A SEQUEL (Lily at age 20)
1988 (15 min)
Content:
Educational mainstreaming in high school
Working for pay and managing money
Leaving home
Living in a group home, its positives and negatives
Friends and social life
Desire for more independence/using assistance
Concerns about physical health
Visuals:
Longitudinal photos of Lily
High school senior year activities including the
graduation ceremony
Work at a pizza restaurant
Group home life: cooking, recreation, supervision
Shopping in a mall with a friend
Swimming in a local Y

LILY AT THIRTY
1997 (14 min)
Content:
Being a union member and striking
Living independently with the help of a social
worker
Adult sibling relationships
Seeking romantic attachments
Fantasy life
Health issues
Self-image
Hopes for the future
Visuals:
Picket line in front of a supermarket
Working as a courtesy clerk in the market after the
strike
Lily’s apartment
Meeting with her social worker
An evening with her brother
Attending a family wedding
Writing a romantic novel
An interview conducted by her mother about her
self-image and her hopes for the future
Elizabeth Grace:
Lily was Ms Grace’s
first child. She subsequently had two sons without apparent genetic
anomalies. An artist, Ms. Grace was a stay-at-home mother for most of
Lily’s childhood and then became a special education teacher. LILY: A STORY
ABOUT A GIRL LIKE ME won the very prestigious Cine Golden Eagle award.
A review of this series:
Reviewed by Lori Widzinski, Health Sciences Library, State University of New York at
Buffalo
These three videos, Lily: A Story About a Girl Like Me,
Lily: A Sequel, and Lily at Thirty, provide an intimate look at the life of a
young woman with Down's Syndrome. Lily's mother, Elizabeth Grace, has recorded the
struggles and the rewards of living with someone with this condition. She has included her
perspective as a parent, as well as Lily speaking her own thoughts at different periods of
her life.
Beginning when Lily was ten years old in 1977, Lily: A
Story About a Girl Like Me, focuses on the classroom, where Lily was one of the early
participants in mainstreaming. We see her playing with friends, reading, making pottery,
and participating in the chorus - just like any other ten year old girl. We hear Lily's
thoughts on how she loves the chorus and being with her friends. Her mother, Elizabeth,
narrates at times, filling in the history of Lily's birth and the effect her disability
has on the family.
Ten years later, when Lily is 20, Lily: A Sequel was recorded. Graduating from
high school is a major turning point for Lily and her mother. Just like any recent
graduate, Lily expresses her joy at completing her high school degree, and longs for a
more independent lifestyle. Her mother reveals her own apprehension about Lily becoming
more independent, although she knows it is the right thing to do. Lily begins life in a
group home that provides a training program to help disabled people learn independent
living skills such as managing money, making appointments and doing household chores. Lily
gets a job at a fast food restaurant and after two and a half years has successfully
learned how to live on her own. She has a dream of living in her own apartment and to
having a boyfriend. Her mother's dream is to see her daughter have an interesting life
that maximizes her talents and skills.
Part of Lily's dream is realized in Lily at Thirty. The video begins with Lily
walking the picket line with her co-workers from Safeway, a grocery store where she has
worked for the past three years. Lily is obviously happy with her work, and her lifestyle,
living alone in her own apartment. Her family and friends are extremely important to her.
She has an independent living counselor who visits her once a week to make sure her bills
are paid, groceries are bought, and things are moving smoothly. Lily talks about her life
and what it means to live with Down's Syndrome. Some things are still hard for her, but
she accepts them and moves on with her life with a strong positive attitude.
All three of these videos are shot with a "home movie" style ambiance. This
helps to reinforce the intimacy of the programs. The sound quality is good, but a slight
echo is detected on the first program. The short 15 minute length of each of these
programs makes them ideal for classroom viewing and discussion. Each one gives a snapshot
of Lily's development.
Highly recommended for college level classes in Education,
Special Education, and Social Work.
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